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Monday, September 7, 2009

How to Make Women Happy, Make Women Laugh and Fall in Love

If you ask women why they fall in love with a man, the most common answer you will hear are, "Well, he has a great sense of humor", "Well, he is able to make me laugh again and again". There is a reason why humor is such a desired quality. Everyone wants to be happy and laughter helps to create that kind of happiness.

Psychologically, you can't dislike someone who can make you laugh again and again, which is what made humor such an irresistible attribute. Laughter also helps to dissolve tension if there is any. If you desire to be more popular among women, you need to learn how to made women laugh.

If you already have this ability, that's great for you. But from my experience, most men happen to lose their sense of humor especially in front of women. If you are one of them, do not despair. Like riding a bicycle, humor is a skill that can be developed. If you are willing to put in more effort and practice it well and soon, you will be able to make women fall in love with you easily.

Here are some simple tips that you can follow:

Do not crack jokes that you receive from email or seen from the internet, unless you absolutely sure that it is going to be funny or it is appropriate in the situation. Most of the time, the joke is not going to be funny or they have already heard the joke before.

In fact, a common mistake made when telling a joke is. "Let me tell you a joke. It is so funny." Why is that a mistake? Firstly, humor needs to have an element of surprise. When you know it is a joke, chances are you will try to resist laughing.

Be cheerful and laugh more often without feeling inhibited. Practice smiling everyday. This is important because when you do this often, it will change the shape of your face and made you appear more cheerful. You will be able to laugh more naturally. There is no need to have a reason in order to laugh. Just laugh. It will make you a happier person.

Be more observant. When you manage to make a woman laugh, record down what you did correctly. With more experience in your hand, you will be able to increase your success rate.

Last but not least, enjoy!

Friday, August 28, 2009

Are You Afraid to Reveal Your Feelings? - Love and Abnormal Behavior






If you are in love and you are afraid to reveal your feelings, there’s a big chance that you may be too aggressive with the person you love, exactly because you are too afraid to reveal your weakness.As a result, you are too cold with them and you don’t help them in any way. Your behavior with them is not normal behavior. If they were any other person, you would not be so rude. As a matter of fact, you would not be rude at all, but kind and gentle.However, because you are trying to hide your weakness in front of this special person, you are an iceberg with them, completely indifferent to their problems and pain. You never help them and never show any sympathy. You are always afraid that they may interpret any kindness as a sign of weakness and conclude that you are dying of love. You are afraid that they will destroy you completely if they tell you that they don’t want you. Because you are so afraid, you are never kind and helpful with them as you would be if they were not so special to you. Because of your fear, you hurt them. You are aggressive, insensitive, distant, and selfish—in other words, the perfect monster. Of course you cannot inspire love… How romantic! Instead of smiling and being kind, you are rude, cruel, and absurd. Perhaps you imagine that “when you’re finally together” you’ll be able to make him or her forget this image completely. You imagine that “they will understand your weakness” and forgive you for your cruelty.You may even try to test their reactions and provoke them with a lot of painful experiences, in order to see if they are going to abandon you or if they are going to find another flirt. If and if and if, until you’re sure you can reveal to them the most secret feeling in the universe: the love you feel for them. However, you are not considering a possibility that you should consider from the beginning: perhaps they won’t wait to see the other, nicer side of your personality after seeing how cold and immature you are. Of course, you have to also realize that there are a few intelligent people in this world who can understand the meaning of human reactions and who will discover your secret, only because you are being aggressive instead of kind and gentle, as you would be if you were not trying to hide your feelings.My advice is this: if you cannot be normal, pretend you are normal on purpose. Do many normal things in a very normal way, even though you may feel horrible because you believe that you should not be so kind with that special person, since it is obvious that they are going to understand that you desperately love them and that they can kill you with their rejection.Pretend that they are not this special person, but somebody else not so important. This is the only way to avoid the neurosis that will certainly dominate you if you insist on being cruel and distant, simply because you want to hide your feelings from the person you love.

IS HE/SHE THE RIGHT MAN/WOMAN FOR ME

You probably haven’t thought about this possibility, but the truth is that you may be wanted by many men or women, without being loved by them.

If you are attractive, intelligent, you have a great personality, money, beauty, etc., you may be desired by many people that belong to the opposite sex, but this doesn’t mean that they love you. This means that they want to posses you, without caring about the way you feel, your plans, ideals or preferences.

You will be able to verify if they really love you or not by examining their actions and their behavior.

Be very careful if you are very attractive, for one reason or another…

How can you verify if they are playing with you and they only want to fulfill their selfish desires, using you like a trophy that they exhibit to their environment, or using your intelligence and good disposition in order to make you work for them without being paid?

How can you be sure that you are not being used?

Pay attention to the way they behave with you.

If they make you suffer, without caring about the way you feel, but only about their desires, their plans and their ambitions, you’ll be easily able to understand that they don’t love you.

They simply want you, for other reasons. Otherwise, they would never make you suffer in order to oblige you to follow their plans. They are already using you if they are making you suffer for any reason.

Be careful if you are too wanted by too many, and never be vain, because your position is very delicate. Vanity is pure stupidity, because if you are beautiful or very intelligent, this doesn’t mean that you are perfect as a human being or that your mental health is safe. On the contrary: you are the ideal victim for the wild anti-conscience, your primitive wild conscience that wants to destroy your human side through craziness and control your behavior, provoking schizophrenia, psychosis or neurosis.

Be very serious and carefully examine everyone that cares about you.

They only want your honey, like flies. They don’t care about your desires, your personality, your feelings, nothing…

They want to imprison you in a cage and be your owners, because you are very nice.

You have to learn many things about the human psyche and human behavior if you want to be safe.

The scientific method of dream interpretation will not only show you everything you must learn, but will also transform you into a wise and self-confident person.

The dynamic method you have the privilege to have access to today is the result of a very long research that took 19 years to be completed, so that you could learn everything immediately, without doubts or any other delay.

I delayed as much as necessary, until I had all the answers, and this is why only now I present you my perfect method of dream translation, which will show you immediately and clearly how to exactly translate the meaning of your dreams, and this way receive the guidance of the wise unconscious mind that produces them.

All your dreams have a protective character, exactly because you inherited the absurd anti-conscience, your wild conscience, in the biggest part of your brain.

The person who will really love you will care first of all about making you happy!

Pay attention to all the details and examine everything very carefully before being a victim of your own vanity. Never believe that someone loves you, only because they felt attracted by your characteristics, your intelligence or your social position.

Is this love? Be Careful With Your Vanity


You haven't yet noticed the other person's flaws and it's as if the sun rises and sets with this new love in your life. Unfortunately, this phase doesn't last. The newness eventually wears off as reality sets in. The good news is that with the right mindset and attitude, you can keep the magic in your relationship.

1. Decide that you are going to have happy relationship. Anything that you ever do will begins with a thought. Visualize yourself and your partner in a happy and healthy relationship.

2. Handle conflict in a loving way. Every couple has disagreements. The way you handle them will help determine the success of your relationship. Don't insist on being right. Instead, focus on understanding your partner's point of view and be a good listener. This will help keep your partner from becoming defensive and he or she will appreciate being heard.

3. Be responsible for your own happiness. Understand that it's not your partner's job to make you happy. In the early stages of your relationship, your partner may feel flattered to know that you depend on him or her for fulfillment, but after a while, they will feel drained and suffocated. True happiness comes from within. Be your own source of happiness and that will make your relationship much sweeter.

4. Don't be consumed by jealousy. This can do serious damage to a relationship. The poet Maya Angelou once said that jealousy is like salt. In small amounts, it can add spice to a relationship but too much is unhealthy.